Hi all. Sorry I know I promised to write again the day after but I was busy. Bottom line is that progress is being made, but slowly. I created my online profile by taking some fresh pictures of myself with my camera using the mirror and using a tripod with the camera timer. I uploaded the pictures (i got 4 good pics from 200 shots) and I wrote up some nice descriptions of myself and what I am looking for. I tried to be as honest as possible. The site was very helpful in guiding me through the process. I also filled out this personality profile questionnaire that other people can view and see your score from. In my profile I was 100% honest and told people about my lack of experience and also the fact that I am a virgin.
So far I have received messages from 7 different girls. Things are going slow as a I mentioned and with each of these girls (who range in age and background) and we are right now in the fact finding stage with each one. It seems like pretty dry and boring stuff but I guess this is how people feel each other out and see if there may be a fit or at least some interest in pursuing things further. I will tell you about each girl.
Kirsten: She is 31 and she works as a Karate instructor. I was like wow a girl who could kick my butt - I like that - I think. She said she is very shy even though she can kick arse and she said she just got out of a long relationship of 8 or 9 years I think. She seems very reserved but very humble and nice. Karate girl would be cool to meet. So far we are just asking questions back and forth and I have not pushed the situation.
Melinda: She is 27 and works in pharmaceutical sales whatever that means. She looks kind of gothic and she has some piercings and some tattoos. I am very curious about this girl but I don't think she would make a good long term partner. However I learned long ago not to judge a book by its cover so I am still exploring options with this girl. At minimum maybe I can learn something from her. Learning stuff is good.
Wendy: This girl is 37 and is a massage therapist. She said she has been doing massage sine she was 23 and of course I am already thinking about all the potential free massages I could get if I hooked up with her but I am also reminded of the Seinfeld episode where Jerry dated a massage girl and it didn't work out. Either way I bet she has some talented hands. She seems like a happy go lucky type of girl who takes things in stride and lets the stuff roll off her back like a wet duck.
Tabitha: She is 24 and she is a bookkeeper for a large chemical company. It doesn't sound like a very flattering job but she is only 24 so I guess that says something. Again I know she is young but whatever.
Daphne: She manages a burger joint and she is 31. She seems like a type A personality and very aggressive. Not sure if I could handle a girl like this.
Tiffany: She is an aspiring model and she is 26. She is definitely the best looking of the group. I don't know if I have any shot with her but it is interesting that she has responded to me. I didn't think I would be getting any attention from a girl like this. Perhaps she is attracted to my intelligence.
Candice: She is 33 and she is an esthetician. I have never been to a spa before but she works at one of the big spas here in Milwaukee. She used to be married and is now divorced. She seems very guarded and cautious. I am not sure if I want to date a girl who is divorced or not.
Well that is it for now. I am working slowly but surely on all 7 of them and also looking for more women I can initiate contact with. I wasn't expecting to have so many girls message me, I thought I would have to be the one pursuing them. I am having fun so far and my ego is feeling better. I am however very worried about sex and when it comes to that because I have no experience. My friends keep suggesting I hire a hooker etc so I can get some experience and not be a total noob once I am actually with a girl.
Thursday, December 3. 2009
Progress is slow but steady
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