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I am no longer a virgin!!!!

I can not begin to describe what this feels like. I feel like I am complete now whereas before I was an incomplete man. I feel like I can conquer the world now. Never again will I need to be embarrassed when it come to sex. All of my buddies are going to be so proud of me and I can't wait to tell them!

Let me tell you the story of how it all went down

Wednesday after dinner around 7pm I headed over to the Del Ray. I thought it was going to be some huge opulent place but I was wrong. It is actually quite small. There is a casino inside and then there is like a bar area. In the bar area is where all the hookers hang out. As soon as I walked into that area I knew I was in the right place because there was literally 10 girls for every 1 guy there. I strolled over to the bar and ordered a drink. I could feel like 10 different sets of eyes checking me out. First I had a few girls come up to me that weren't that interesting to me but I still was very nervous. They were asking me what my name was and what I was doing in Costa Rica. I told them that I came to Costa Rica so I could come to the Del Ray and meet the girls here. They all giggled and I guess most of them assumed I was going to be an easy sale but I didn't want an overly aggressive girl and I also didn't want a Latina.

I noticed this one girl dressed in blue who looked out of place in there. She was much more attractive than the other women and I think she was from Eastern Europe somewhere like maybe Polish or Ukrainian. I smiled and waved at her and she immediately got up and walked over to me and sat down. I was like wow this is awesome. I bought her a drink and we chatted a little bit. I told her she was very sexy and that I noticed her from across the room as soon as I got her. She seemed genuinely flattered and then I told her I was a virgin and that I came to Costa Rica to lose my virginity. At first she laughed and asked me if I was joking, I told her no, that I was dead serious. I told her I was looking for a girl who was sweet and who had the patience to deal with a virgin and show me the ropes. She said that was so sweet and she would love to be that girl. We discussed pricing and then we left and walked back to my hotel. I wasn't nervous until we got like 1 block from my hotel then I started to feel nauseous in my stomach and very very nervous that I wouldn't be able to perform.

We entered my room and sat on the bed. I paid her and then she asked me if I had ever had a blowjob before and I said no, even though I had got a bj once when I was 18 but it was really quick and the girl was drunk and I was drunk and I don't actually remember it but my friends told me it happened. She said well let's start with that and told me to lie down on the bed and take off my pants. Watching her blow me was watching a porno movie. I have watched plenty of porn in my life and this looked exactly like all the movies I had ever watched. It felt so good I could barely contain myself. She was rubbing herself while she was blowing me and after maybe 10 minutes she stopped sucking me and said ok it's time and she put a condom on me and then climbed on top of me. She said this was the easiest way to learn because she would just guide me inside her vs me trying to get it into her. She reached down and grabbed me and eventually stuffed it inside of her and sat down. I had no idea it would feel so warm. I just lied there and let her do all the work and after about 5 minutes I was so happy and excited that I started to get into it more and started to feel how she was going up and down and moving my hips a bit. I didn't last very long and I came after about 10 more minutes. It felt different than when I jerk off in the shower, it was better.

After that we just lied there and chilled and she said she was very happy to be my first and that I looked like I enjoyed it. I told her I did and then I asked her if I could pay her more money and for her to teach me some things about her vagina. She said no problem and she told me to put my face about 3 inches from her crotch and then she opened herself up and explained all the parts and how they worked. I had no idea what a clitoris was or what to do with it. Once she had given me the tour then she told me what to do with her clit to make it feel good and explained that I needed to spread her lips open and rub just her clit and that I needed to do it in a perfect rhythmic pattern. She also showed me the other things I could do with my fingers. It was quite a learning experience and I spent the next 4 hours with her practicing until I finally made her come.

I am so tired from the whole trip that I HAVE to go to sleep now but I wanted to at least get this post down on paper so that my readers would be able to know what was going on. I will post more about Wed and Thurs and what else I did.

I have been here in Costa Rica since Friday but I got in late and so my first day here was Saturday. I spent most of the day lying around in bed at the hotel because it has been ages since I just chilled out and slept in. Eventually I ventured out and walked the streets checking out the local scene, looking at the street vendors etc. It is very hot here in the direct sun, like wow the hottest sun I have ever felt. I wanted to get a chance to take in the culture while I am here and I am not in a rush to jump into bed with a hooker on day one. I almost got run over like 5 times here. I read that the drivers here are crazy but I didn't think they were as bad as what I am seeing. It is weird here, there is no cooperation or etiquette it seems, it's more like every man for themselves.

I have not yet ventured into the Del Ray. I am very nervous about going based on what I read online on some forums. I guess I feel kind of intimidated by the whole experience. Also I need to make sure I find a girl that speaks English because I do not want to have to deal with someone who doesn't speak my language especially because I'm a virgin. I need to find a really sweet girl that speaks English who will tolerate my noobness. I have watched plenty of porno in my life to know what I need to do, but I have never actually touched a vagina so I really am I bit confused about how to navigate things. I did have a friend John who explained to me how it works and what to feel for, and how to get it in and what do with it once we start etc and I am going to try and remember my training once the moment of truth comes. I have also had some practice putting condoms on bananas.

I spent Sunday and Monday going on tours. I checked out some volcanoes and some other cool tourist attractions and I had a great time. I have seen quite a few cute Tica's since I have been here but none of them have been hookers that I am aware of. Tica is slang for a Costa Rican female. The males are called Ticos. The girls here are a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. Some Ticas are light skinned, some are tanned, and some are black. I did hear however that when I go to the Del Ray that I will find girls from all over the world and that I don't necessarily have to choose a Tica. I think that that shopping process is going to be fun and scary at the same time. I have read on some forums about how this process works.

You just go in there and buy yourself a drink and sit at the bar. There will be girls everywhere apparently and they will come over and sit with you and rub your ass and all kinds of shit I can not possibly imagine. If you find one you like you just talk to them and if you have a hotel room then you can bring them back there and you can negotiate prices but from what I hear they are not every expensive at all so that is good. I am worried I won't be able to find my way back to my hotel but I guess the girl will probably know how to get there if I just tell her the name of the hotel.

So today is the big day... well it will be day one. I am going to go to the Del Ray tonight and I will be selecting a different girl for tonight, wed, and thursday because my flight leaves late thursday night. I want to have the chance to have sex with 3 different girls so I can see 3 different vaginas etc and get used to seeing various shapes and stuff because I know that all girls look at feel different. I am going to go grab some food now and go for another nice walk outside and do some shopping. I have found a few cool things here I am going to buy and bring back with me. I am so nervous just thinking about what is going to happen tonight. I feel like I waited my whole life for this moment.

I managed to convince Carol that I had to go to Costa Rica for a business convention. She bought it hook, line, and sinker. So I am leaving tomorrow afternoon for Costa Rica so I can go and visit the famous Del Ray and get it on with some hookers. I am very nervous because I heard that many of the girls don't speak English there so I need to find a girl that does speak English and will be gentle with me. I wonder how they are going to react when I tell them that I am still a virgin? In the movies, they are always sympathetic and think it's cute but somehow I doubt that that is how it is in the real world. They will probably be thinking "great, now I have to show this noob what to do". Either way I am determined to lose my virginity there and also soak up some sun and take a long needed vacation while I am at it.

I am going alone, and I have traveled many times to foreign countries without issue. I am trying to learn a bit of Spanish before I go so I am not totally lost once I get there but I am not sure how much I can pick up in just 2 days. I have a book that I am going to read on the flight there etc. I have already spent many hours doing research online etc about Costa Rica so I know exactly what I am getting into once I get there. Will report more from there via my laptop so I guess it is goodbye for now

Let me tell you about the date I went on with Carol on Friday. I met her at the restaurant we agreed to meet at. She was already inside sitting at a table which was kind of awkward but I rolled with it the best I could. She stood up and we shook hands like some formal business meeting which I thought was kind of funny and cute at the same time. She is 30 years old and she has medium length brown hair. She looks older than she says she is in a mature way. It's not like oh you look old and nasty, she just looked mature for her age but she looks good.

She told me that her last relationship had lasted 7 years and I was like damn I haven't even been in a single relationship myself ever. I didn't tell her that though, instead I lied and told her my last relationship lasted 4 years but I have been single for 3 years now. So much for her being a virgin. There is no way she is a virgin too unless she is lying about being in that relationship, kind of like the same way I lied about being in a relationship.

We ate dinner which was very good and we continued to get to know one another through useless small talk. Half of the shit I was saying I was just making up on the fly. I'm not sure why I was making so much shit up I guess it was because the whole conversation felt like a competition. Maybe she is just a really competitive girl, the kind of girl you can play racquetball with and still fell challenged. I know I am really inexperienced when it comes to women but I have enough friends to observe to know a thing or two about the situation. I also watch a lot of tv and lot of movies so I think that helps me a lot.

After dinner I asked her what she wanted to do next and she replied "surprise me" and I was like um ok here we go with another test, here we go with more competition. So I said fine let's go to this dance club I know. Of course I don't really know it and I have never been there but I had Googled it and knew where it was. So we arrive at the club around 10:30pm and there is a massive lineup and I am like shit there is no way we are going in. I tell her I don't feel like waiting in line and she is like we don't have to wait in line and she walks up to the bouncer and slips him a 20 dollar bill and he lets us in and I was like wow you win the prize girl. She was all excited once we got into the club and I asked her if she does that often and she said no that was the first time she has ever bribed anyone for anything. She said she was watching a tv show the other day and the guy was talking about how easy and polite it is to bribe people.

We danced a lot of the night away until about 2am. I am not big on dancing but after a few shooters I just didn't give a hoot anymore. I was kind of worried she would want me to go back to her place and have sex. I was worried because I haven't had sex before and I don't really know what I am doing. This night made me realize that I need to go to a prostitute or something so I can get a few under my belt. So I went to the bathroom and when I came back I told her I had just puked a lot and I wanted to go. She was sympathetic and we left. The taxi dropped her at home and she gave me a kiss on the cheek and got out and said I hope you feel better.

I now am planning a trip to Costa Rica where prostitution is still legal. I need to get away anyways to some place hot and sunny so I can kill two birds with one stone. I am going to go at the end of this month. I will let you all know more once I book it.

Hello everyone, I am back and sorry it has been so long since my last post. Let me fill you in on what has been happening and on what hasn't been happening. First of all, I never heard back from that girl Kirsten. I can only assume that I wasn't aggressive enough and that somehow turned her off. I was worried about coming on too strong and ruining things but now I see that I was too passive. So next girl I hook up with, I am going to be more aggressive with because clearly that is what girls err women want. I have to get over my insecurities and let the real me out. The me that should have come out years ago and no I don't mean come out like I am gay or something.

Christmas holidays were a busy time of the year for me for my job. Lots of people had insects and rodents that they needed to get rid of and my job doesn't stop just for some stupid holidays. Yes I am calling xmas stupid because I pretty much spent it alone and it was pretty uneventful. I am however determined to meet more girls this year. Speaking of this year, my near years eve was pretty lame as well. I just rented a few movies and stayed home and watched them.

So here we are in 2010 and luckily I still have a few women that I am talking to that I haven't met yet. One girl is named Carol and she works for a medical lab. I am not exactly sure what that means but I think she makes retty decent money which is good because I don't want to hook up with a girl who can't pay her own way. Wow I sound really bitter right now.

I have been speaking with her for a about 10 days now and she seems to be very shy as well. I wouldn't be surprised if she is a virgin too ro maybe has only slept with a few different guys. I asked her what her idea of a great date would be and she said she had no idea. I was like well this is great, we are both a couple of noobs when it comes to dating. I asked her if she would like to go out for dinner because that is the extent of my creativity and she said she would be into doing that. We have a date planned for Friday night. I am going to take her to this place called Gary Danko Restaurant which is supposed to be pretty good. I will let you know how that goes.

I have been thinking about getting a dog. I am not sure why but yesterday I had a dream about having a dog and I was very happy. I was also thinking that maybe having a dog would make it easier for me to meet women. I still haven't decided yet if I am actually going to follow through on it. A dog is a big responsibility and I am not sure if I want that in my life right now. I definitely want a woman though